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1) Love and Ego Boundries - A Psychological view of Dr.M.Scott Peck: Experts from 'The Road Less Travelled' by Dr.M.scott Peck
Love can be defined in to various categories:eros, philia, agape,
perfect love and imperfect love.
Definition for love: the will to extend one's self for the purpose of
nurturing own's one spirtual growth. All others are more or less
infactuations and not true.
Let us understand the life from this perspective.
When we are just out our mothers womb, we dont realise the difference
between our movement and other movement.
The child thinks that as it moves the world moves. no difference. It
is very happy
that everything is as per its like.
But as the child grows, it realises...to its shock...understands that
things are different..
nothing happens as per the child thinks. its assumption is broken.
Then as the child grows it develops Ego boudries are developed.
Parents are not ale understand this as they are in a higher ego sate
called parental ego state.
At the marrige age when this child meets someone who is in a similar
there are attempts to break the ego boudries.
The breakage of Ego boundies results in Love.
But unfortunately this boundry breakage is very temprory. After
marrige again as circumstances develop,
differences between the partners grow. They go back to thier
boundries...And life is no longer happy..
These are the same pair of lovers who thought they are made for each
but not any more...
What is really needed is the individual spriritual growth...one need
to understand oneself better,
to understand another...