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Instructions for a Better Life

Sunday, October 04, 1998
                  1. Give people more than they expect and do it cheerfully.

                  2. Memorize your favorite poem.

                  3. Don't believe all you hear, spend all you have, or sleep all you
                     want.

                  4. When you say, "I love you", mean it.

                  5. When you say, "I'm sorry", look the person in the eye.

                  6. Be engaged at least six months before you get married.

                  7. Believe in love at first sight.

                  8. Never laugh at anyone's dreams.

                  9. Love deeply and passionately. You might get hurt, but it's the
                     only way to live life completely

                 10. In disagreements, fight fairly.  No name calling.

                 11. Don't judge people by their relatives.

                 12. Talk slow but think quick.

                 13. When someone asks you a question you don't want to answer, smile
                     and ask,  "Why do you want to know?"

                 14. Remember that great love and great achievements involve great
                     risk.

                 15. Call your Mom.

                 16. Say "bless you" when you hear someone sneeze.

                 17. When you lose, don't lose the lesson.

                 18. Remember the three R's:  Respect for self; Respect for others;
                     Responsibility for all your actions.

                 19. Don't let a little dispute injure a great friendship.

                 20. When you realize you've made a mistake, take immediate steps to
                     correct it.

                 21. Smile when picking up the phone. The caller will hear it in your
                     voice.

                 22. Marry someone you love to talk to.  As you get older, their
                     conversational skills will be as important as any other skill.

                 23. Spend time alone.

                 24. Open your arms to change, but don't let go of your values.

                 25. Remember that silence is sometimes the best answer.

                 26. Read more books and watch less TV.

                 27. Live a good, honorable life. Then when you get older and think
                     back, you'll get to enjoy it a second time.

                 28. Never Trust in God or any kind of fictitious entities and lock
                     your car.

                 29. A loving atmosphere in your home is so important.  Do all you
                     can to create a tranquil harmonious home.

                 30. In disagreements with loved ones, deal with the current
                     situation; don't bring up the past.

                 31. Read between the lines.

                 32. Share your knowledge.  It's a way to achieve immortality.

                 33. Be gentle with the earth.

                 34. Pray  --  there's immeasurable power in it.

                 35. Never interrupt when you are being flattered.

                 36. Mind your own business.

                 37. Don't trust someone who doesn't close their eyes when you kiss
                     them.

                 38. Once a year, go someplace you've never been before.

                 39. If you make a lot of money, put it to use helping others while
                     you are living. That is wealth's greatest satisfaction.

                 40. Remember that not getting what you want is sometimes a stroke of
                     luck.

                 41. Learn the rules then break some.

                 42. Remember that the best relationship is one where your love for
                     each other is greater than your need for each other.

                 43. Judge your success by what you had to give up in order to get it.

                 44. Remember that your character is your destiny.

                 45. Approach love and cooking with reckless abandon.



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